In my religion we have a code of ethics that tells our followers to avoid stealing, lying, killing all living organisms, committing improper sexual activity, and destructive occupations (Anderson 26/27). the five governing precepts explain more in depth about the code of ethics. The first precpt says to refrain form taking life away from all that are breathing (Harvey 202). I and many other followers are vegetarians because of this precept. In the second precept stealing is prohibited. Improper sexual activity is covered in the third precept. In it, it tells us that sexual activity is only to be used in order to conceive children. Polygamy, adultery, and incest are also forbidden in this precept. Lying, or as the fourth precept calls it, false speech is also forbidden (Harvey 206). The fifth precept covers alcohol and improper drug use. It is said that if one breaks this precept that person is more likely to break any or all of the previous precepts (Harvey 207).
In my family we go by the Buddhist values and traditions. Parents have special duties that they have to do for their children. My parents trained me to my father’s profession, found a suitable marriage for myself, and they gave me my inheritance at the time that they felt was suitable (Harvey 213). As their child, I also had duties for my parents, but only when I grew old enough to take responsibility for them. My duties included to keep the family name or lineage, the tradition in the family, to be worthy of my heritage, and to give alms on their behalf when they die (Harvey 213). Marriages are arranged by the parents because of the thought that because the parents have more experience in life and can pick a better mate for their child. Even though the parents arrange thethe marriages, each person of the impending marriage has the choice to either agree to the marriage or to say no and not marry that person (Penney 46). Weddings take place in the bride’s home. Most are usually performed by a male in the family. The two people getting married exchange rings and the thumbs of both right hands are tied together. It is a symbol of being tyed together forever as husband and wife. The ceremony is then ended with a promise of respect, love and faithfulness. After the wedding, celebrations go on for days (Penney 46). When a person dies in our family, we either go through on or the other way of putting the dead to rest. It is not a sad event because of our belief in rebirth. A monk will come and give a talk about the after death. The five precepts and three Jewels are repeated. The body is usually cremated in this ceremony(Penney 46/47). Another method of putting the dead to rest is to keep it around for a couple of days and after proper rituals are performed, then the body is carried to a certain area where it is left for the scavenger animals(Anderson 150).</< p>