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Daisys love

Daisy's Love

In F. Scott Fitzgerald's The Great Gatsby, the

character of Daisy Buchanan has many instances where

her life and love of herself, money, and materialism

come into play. Daisy is constantly portrayed as

someone who is only happy when things are being given

to her and circumstances are going as she has planned

them. Because of this, Daisy seems to be the character

that turns Fitzgerald's story from a tale of wayward

love to a saga of unhappy lives.

Fitzgerald portrays Daisy as a "doomed" character

from the very beginning of the novel. She seems

concerned only of her own stability and is sometimes

not ready to go though what she feels she must do to

continue the life that she has grown to know. She

tells that she only married Tom Buchanan for the

security he offered and love had little to do with the

issue. Before her wedding, Jordan Baker finds Daisy in

her hotel room,

"groping around in the waste-basket she

had with her on the bed and pull[ing] out

[a] string of pearls. "Take 'em down-stairs

and give 'em back.... Tell 'em all Daisy's


change' her mine... She began to cry - she cried

and cried... we locked the door and got her into

a cold bath." (Fitzgerald 77)

Money seems to be one of the very top priorities in

her life, and everyone that she surrounds herself

with, including her daughter, seem to accept this as

mere fact with her. She lives in one of the most elite

neighborhoods in the state, in one of the most elegant

houses described in the book, and intends very much

for her daughter to grow up much like she has. "And I

hope she'll be a fool -- that's the best thing a girl

can be in this world today, a beautiful little fool."

(Fitzgerald 24) She raves repeatedly of boats and

large windows and halls where many a extravagant party

is held. This only stands remind of her reliance on

material goods and her stories of her gowns and home

furnishings confirm this sad fact. Daisy is one woman

who is at home in Bloomingdales, and shuns anyone who

would be out-of-place at a gathering of societies

richest and most pompous citizens. She is forever

looking forward to showing off, and she exhibits such

behavior when she parades her daughter around in front

of guests like an inanimate object. So intimate in

fact, that it seems as if Pammy was not even really



"In June 1922, Nick records Daisy's

statement that her daughter is three

years old. Daisy married Tom Buchanan in

June 1919. If her child is indeed three,

then Daisy was nine months pregnant at

her wedding. ... The age of the child is

a clue, planted by Fitzgerald, to Daisy's

premarital promiscuity or even an indication

that Pammy is Gatsby's child... It might also be

asserted that Daisy's mistake in Pammy's age

was intended by Fitzgerald to indicate her

indifference to the child." (Bruccoli 38)

At the end of the book, however, there is a sudden

realization that is the same as the people whom Daisy

interacts with; this is how Daisy was raised, and it

is the Daisy that they must learn to accept.

Another character flaw of Daisy's is her reliance

on men. She is seen as a women who's entire existence

is based not on what she has personally accomplished,

but what the man she has married has done with his

life, and to support her. Tom was a very successful

football player. He is handsome. But what entices

Daisy the most is his abundant wealth that he has no

problem spending and sharing with his wife. For this,

and not for love, Daisy and Tom are married. It is a


marriage out of convince, one that was just the next

step in both of their lives. At Gatsby's party, this

is most apparent.

"Go ahead," answered Daisy genially, "and

if you want to take down any address here's my

gold pencil."... She looked around after a moment

and told me the girl was "common but pretty," and

I knew that except for the half-hour she'd been

alone with Gatsby she wasn't having a good time."

(Fitzgerald 107)

When she is faced with the decision to tell both men

whom she is truly in love with, Daisy confesses that

she really was in love with Tom for a time, but also

that Jay Gatsby was one of her beaus. She is unwilling

to deny her original love to Tom in any way, and

states: "I love you now - isn't that enough? I can't

help what's past... I did love him once-but I loved

you too!" (Fitzgerald 133) She gives the expression

that she would have married Gatsby had it not been

that he was poor. He was also, at the time that the

two originally met, somewhat from the wrong side of

town, but his uniform help to disguise this. Because

of his undying love for Daisy, Gatsby has come to

spend the rest of his life making enough money in

unlawful ways so as to buy her love. Daisy is once


again portrayed as a selfish and materialistic woman

who worries about no one but herself.

But what we as readers find to be the most

unnerving part of Daisy's entire character is her

total unhappiness. Despite all that she has had placed

upon her, Daisy only wants what she has never learned

to accept. This is true love, without strings,

attachments, or material goods. She repeatedly reminds

the readers that love is exactly what you make of it,

though she seems to have made a mockery of love in her

own life. She is an example of what is completely

wrong with the modern society's idea of love; that it

can be bought and sold at will of the buyer and

seller. For, even when she is offered unconditional

love she doesn't know how to react to it.

"He knew that when he kissed this girl,

and forever wed his unutterable visions to her

perishable breath, his mind would never romp

again like the mind of God. So he waited,

listening for a moment longer to the tuning-fork

that had been struck upon a star. Then he kissed

her. At his lips' touch she blossomed for him

like a flower and the incarnation was complete."

(Fitzgerald 43)


This is very wrong, and Daisy lives in misery her

entire adult life amid things that are supposed to buy

her happiness but lend her nothing but heartbreak. She

is confused and has learned nothing of how to handle

true love when it is given to her. In her world she

must buy and sell her soul and love like the goods in

a store window, for a price. The readers sees her

almost as a martyr of her own actions and

misconceptions of life.

All of these character flaws; Daisy's

selfishness, materialistic views, reliance on men, and

overbearing emphasis on money, all lead to her own

destruction. Though unlike George and Gatsby's

physical destruction, Daisy's is one of a mental and

spiritual kind. She is seen as someone who has

forsaken her true love with Gatsby for Tom and the

stability that he stands for, thus creating her own

demise. She stands as a symbol of what one can do to

destroy oneself with ignorance and innocence together.

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